• Estradiol Enjoyer @lemmy.blahaj.zone
      31·
      2 months ago

      I felt the same way and then I tried estrogen and it is really cool so far. I highly suggest that everybody who is curious do so if they can because you might as well find out, and the effects are totally reversible if you don’t stick with it for months or even years

      • Flax@feddit.ukEnglish
        1·
        2 months ago

        Do not take medicine without advice from a medical practitioner.

  • Generic_Idiot@lemm.eeEnglish
    591·
    2 months ago

    I’d like to be a woman for a day just to try out their orgasms. They seem fun. My wife’s eyes roll in the back of her head and she’s mentally disabled for a minute when she cums.

    Mine is kinda like a sneeze.

        • Dragonstaff@leminal.spaceEnglish
          11·
          2 months ago

          Putting a finger in your ass is not gay and neither is pegging. You do you, but if you’re scared because you think you’ll enjoy it, I’m going to continue to laugh at you.

          I’d almost feel bad for straight guys if so many of you weren’t such wimps.

    • RBWells@lemmy.world
      10·
      2 months ago

      I have a trans son, and this is on the list of side effects if they use T, the loss of female sexual response. Though it’s my understanding that testosterone drives libido in women too, I guess it’s a dosage thing.

      To be honest, mine vary in intensity but yeah the most intense are sort of like going crazy for a short while, can’t form words.

    • Zenith@lemm.ee
      26·
      2 months ago

      If you only had 24 hours to figure it out you’d probably not be able to get there, it might be a better orgasm but they’re much harder to achieve and require years of trial and error for many of us

      • frezik@midwest.social
        111·
        2 months ago

        Legal weed ended up being the shortcut for me. My wife sometimes has to checkin after a good weed orgasm to make sure I’m alright.

        Though I was actively working on being multiply orgasmic for several years before.

        • Yuki@kutsuya.dev
          4·
          2 months ago

          MDMA is what does it for me! Without it it’s VERY hard to orgasm as a woman…

    • Mossy Feathers (She/Her)@pawb.social
      549·
      2 months ago

      That’s… actually a form of dysphoria. I can attest from first-hand experience, wishing you were a woman is a form of dysphoria. You don’t have to feel sad to be dysphoric, having a somewhat persistent desire to be seen as a different gender is enough.

      Edit: this is assuming you aren’t already a woman >.>

      • Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com
        23·
        2 months ago

        Eh I’ve never had dysphoria (I’ve always loved my body) but ever since I learned that my bits are different from some other peoples’, I’ve wanted so much to be able to switch back and forth, to experience both kinds!

        • goatmeal@midwest.social
          16·
          2 months ago

          Yea I feel this like I’m cool as a dude and wouldn’t want to not have been/be a dude but I really like experiencing different things and it’d be neat to experience being a woman for a bit

      • Owl@lemm.eeEnglish
        91·
        2 months ago

        thats just not what dysphoria is.

        dysphoria is a sense of unease and discomfort with ones own self. its a mental disorder. wishing you were a girl does not mean you have dysphoria.

      • LwL@lemmy.world
        101·
        2 months ago

        Dysphoria by definition is about feeling bad (wikipedia calls it “a profound sense of unease”, which seems pretty apt). It’s the opposite of euphoria after all.

        You can be trans without gender dysphoria though, nothing wrong with that.

        • Klear@lemmy.worldEnglish
          2·
          2 months ago

          Damn, I never made that connection. That’s neat. Shame they didn’t go with cacophoria though. I like that better.

      • vga@sopuli.xyz
        1·
        2 months ago

        I don’t think the desire to be seen as a woman and the desire to be a woman are congruous. Are they?

          • Ricky Rigatoni@lemm.ee
            5·
            2 months ago

            What if I offer them a ticket to the next High Patriarchy Council meeting? We’re going to be discussing lowering the prices of dinosaur legos and how much cheese is too much cheese in a box of mac n cheese.

            • brown567@sh.itjust.works
              4·
              2 months ago

              I can’t make this next meeting, but my input is:

              • Lower prices for dinosaur Legos would be nice, but I’m worried I won’t be able to self-moderate if they go lower, so they’d need to go much lower so I don’t end up bankrupting myself with the more approachable prices

              • Sometimes the machine puts 2 bags of cheese, but then only fills the box with enough noodles to hit the target weight, so double the cheese and commensurately less noodles. Too much cheese is somewhere between normal and this

            • angrystego@lemmy.world
              1·
              2 months ago

              I’d rather discuss lowering prices of quality cheese and the non existence of dinosaur patterns on women’s clothes - which is scandalous!

  • 0laura@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    232·
    2 months ago

    need a /tttt/ community on Lemmy, but it’s so transphobic it’d get banned from any instance :(

    need to make an instance that allows trans people to be transphobic

  • trslim@pawb.social
    30·
    2 months ago

    I really wish that i had like Mystiques ability to just change my sex and looks at will. Maybe one day i wanna be a man, and another a woman.

    • FearMeAndDecay@literature.cafeEnglish
      9·
      2 months ago

      Same! I like being a woman, and I’m pretty comfortable in my body but… if i could change my sex at will that would be so great for dressing up. Like sometimes I think it’d be cool to be a big barbarian man with like a bare chest and body paint. Or I could wear a really sharp suit

    • Reddfugee42@lemmy.world
      English
      92·
      2 months ago

      Talk to more women. I mean, just watch videos where men wear period cramp simulators. Just the tip of the iceberg. It seems to me that basically all of their systems are higher maintenance. Meanwhile men are naturally more muscular, have stronger bones, and don’t really have to worry about shit.

        • ArtemisimetrA@lemm.ee
          81·
          2 months ago

          It (and I CANNOT POSSIBLY stress this enough) is not that simple. Breasts get in the way more then a dick ever will. Softer skin, yes, which also means more prone to abrasions, bruises, and snagging on things. Some people might feel less threatened, but also, if you’re not classically attractive, you’re often either invisible, or a target for ridicule. Media will continue to show you “what you should be”, and even if you match the body image, it’s never enough.
          There are good things about being a woman, or transitioning to be one, I’m not going to list them. I assume you probably have other reasons to consider such a course of action (assuming that’s even something you’re considering; if not, never mind 😅)

          • ifeelsick@lemm.eeEnglish
            11·
            2 months ago

            i mean besides the physical effects like getting bruised etc, a lot of what you listed is simultaneously true for both genders. you dont think men are regularly battered about their own self image? unless you consider our socialization of taking abuse and keeping our cool as normal then i can attest to being affected by seeing “what you should be”

            • faythofdragons@slrpnk.netEnglish
              4·
              2 months ago

              And please don’t take any of this as meaning you shouldn’t be a girl if that’s what you want. For a lot of trans women, it really is easier to be a woman, it’s just not because dick vs boob.

            • ArtemisimetrA@lemm.ee
              3·
              2 months ago

              Hey no need to be sorry, but I accept if you’re feeling it. Sorry if my tone was harsh. Still haven’t had any coffee today

    • Pnut@lemm.ee
      6·
      2 months ago

      That’s a weird take. See: periods, childbirth, and the massive amount of hormones involved. Then there’s society…