• magnetosphere@kbin.social
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    7 months ago

    When I’m not sure, I just give them the benefit of the doubt. For example, there’s a good chance that the person replying to me speaks English well, but it’s not their first language. Also, their cultural norms might be very different from my own. It could be a simple misunderstanding, too. Overreacting would just make things worse.

    When it’s obvious that the person replying is just being a pedantic nuisance, though, I merely stop responding. They may think they’ve “won”, but so what? I can go to bed knowing I don’t waste my time sealioning.

    • Cryophilia@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      They may think they’ve “won”, but so what?

      The point of internet arguments is not to convince your opponent. That never happens.

      The point is to convince the audience, and if you just leave then it looks like the sealion is right.

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          7 months ago

          Depends. If it’s a subject I feel strongly about I’ll go down the whole damn chain upvoting and downvoting as applicable.

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            7 months ago

            At which point the sea lioning has been obvious. You’re not going to see the person you disagree with getting the “last word” and think they “won”.

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              7 months ago

              Nah. It almost always devolves into one person making an effort while the other’s just being an ass.