Washing the dishes, or cleaning up after yourself tells me that you love me and you in a way that words can’t express
I once put an entire watermelon under the wipers on my friends car like a parking ticket when I knew they had a rough day at work. They like watermelon.
My wife and I tend to pull stupid faces at each other.
Every person and couple has their own so its tough to say. I wake my gf with kisses only which she likes.
I dunno, she seems to like my kisses too.
What in the ‘I’d fuck this guys dead wife too’ situation you putting me in 😭
54m here, married for 19 years.
My wife has a very demanding career, so really needs her hobbies to let go of the stress. What I do is listen when she’s talking about what has her interests. Then if there is anything I can do to facilitate it, it will suddenly materialize. This is not always something expensive or even something material.
Just before COVID the entire family got into playing D&D. Being an artist my wife went bonkers on painting miniatures. So I made sure she had all the paints and brushes she needed. Plus, the dining room, which is actually our “hobby” room, got a lighting upgrade
How bonkers did she get? This bonkers and there are many many more:
I loved it when my ex would act like a child to put something stupid into context.
Doing a fresh Linux install on your partners laptop
Nothing says love like surprise LFS.
Lol.
“But honey, I left you a README file…”
Wife: why is my computer not how I remember it being?
Me: it’s my love language!
Momma warned me about people like you
Pebbling. Giving small gifts or sharing small pieces of content/info that they are interested in
So, uhh… Do you like boulders?
I take what I can get
Kk, because I have information to dump about all the things I like!
They can even be literal pebbles if they’re into that!
Jesus Christ Marie, they’re not rocks. They’re minerals
Does infodumping count?
Navigating bureaucracy for someone else
Listen to your SO’s friends and [close] family.
Your SO talks to them about what they really want.
Put “never gonna give you up” playing on background every time they leave their PC unlocked
Rawr!
(It means I love you in dinosaur)
Gave my brother my mullvad account so he can use a VPN and his PC and taught him how to pirate. Which browser, which sites to trust… Even walked him through a manjaro install over the phone. I often clean his PC for him when ever I’m over.
Built my ex a cute itx PC in turquoise. Dinky little thing.
My wife and I tell each other we love each other an obnoxious amount.
Not so long ago, she developed a throat infection that stopped her from being able to talk for a while. So now we have a new way if saying it, three little squeezes.
