I keep hearing about how you shouldn’t laugh over your own jokes but when I watch a video or listen to a podcast, I find it much more authentic and likable when they laugh over their own jokes in a conversation. You know, vibes.

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    3 days ago

    OK with laughing over your own joke, but if you burst out and are not even able to finish uttering it, then I think this is a bit childish.

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    Humor is difficult.

    It’s tough when it’s actually a bad joke or they are telling it badly, but they find it funny.

    If it’s a genuinely funny situation / retelling, both of you laughing about the same thing and also about how the person in question is struggling to breathe because they have to laugh so much, that’s funny.

    But it really really really depends.

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    As long as they’re not obnoxiously loud and saying something that’s actually funny, I think it’s completely normal. People usually say funny things that they find funny so it would be natural for them to laugh a little.

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      22 hours ago

      I have a guy at my work who does this, he half shouts some unfunny thing like “Are you watching porn on your computer?” Then laughs really loudly while everyone else is silent.

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    If it takes them several attempts to tell me something and they’re laughing all the way through it, I assume it’s going to be bad or underwhelming.

    I’ve personally heard some of the best ones were when someone keeps themselves steadied enough to tell what a funny story is or what a joke is but then break into laughter towards the end. Just enough to finish the bit.

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    If someone is about to tell me a joke and start laughing mid first sentence it’s a sign that is either going to be very good or so bad it will become good.

    Let them laugh!

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      This right here is the best answer in my opinion. Regardless of the story, the teller is just so into it that they can’t stop laughing. You’re probably going to end up laughing with them.

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    People who say you shouldn’t laugh at your own jokes are either sad, sad people or have never told a funny joke or story ever.

    There’s jokes and stories I’ve been saying for 20 years that still make me laugh as I’m saying it.

    Be a man, laugh at your own jokes.

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      Laughing sounds like one of them “emotions” that aren’t sposed to exist for real manly men, so says the teevee

      /- Cleetus

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    You’re telling the joke because you find it funny, it’s so fucking weird that people seem to not understand that.

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    My coworker has that kind of sense of humor where he always says the obvious joke you’re hoping nobody will make. Then he laughs, and for some reason, everyone else does.

    Also, whenever he helps someone and they thank him, he says, “That will be 10 dollars,” and then laughs about his joke.

    The reason i hate it is this: He’s a lazy, quiet-quitting asshole who everyone likes. I, on the other hand, work my butt off. I appreciate a witty, clever sense of humor. However, I’m socially awkward, so nobody likes me!

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        Doing the least amount possible to keep a job puts pressure on coworkers to take up the slack. I work in an ER, not an office. When someone is in the bathroom texting, more than they are out on the floor helping its shitty, yes.