• cm0002@lemmy.world
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    6 天前

    It’s not like those things are gone forever, infants are the most time intensive but as they get older that intensity fades.

    By the time they reach elementary around 5 your energy and time should have returned to a decent chunk, about 10/11 you can start (ultimately based on their maturity/responsibility levels, every child is different) leaving them at home, they can make their own snacks, use the microwave and actually have some independence from you

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        6 天前

        5 really, or less depending on what hobbies

        10+ is just so you can leave them home alone. You could always try to get older children in on your hobbies for bonding lol

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        5 天前

        So, 10 years of no hobbies.

        Not necessarily…

        Could be much worse, depending how fragile the hobby is. Heh.

        But joking aside, it’s more like 5 years, for most hobbies.