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Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Which one of your views gets you labeled as "the other"?
4·2 days agoOne of the things people constantly disagree with me about is children. Specifically how hard it really is to raise one, and that everyone isn’t meant to have them.
Many people don’t understand that where children begin, you end. There isn’t going to be time for things you used to do on your own time, at your own leisure. There are no natural born parents, people that can function on little sleep and overwhelming circumstances. You give up peace, money, autonomy and you don’t stop parenting until you’re gone. There are a large number of people who feel like one day, they’ll become a parent and that will be their identity. Some people start their journey in parenthood wholeheartedly believing their child is an extension of themselves; not a developing, unique person that may or may not be completely different- like no one else in the family.
Having children is the most important job that you will ever have. You don’t get to quit when you realize that maybe you aren’t cut out for it. That’s why it’s important to know yourself, and work on your trauma and shortcomings before they bleed into your children. If you aren’t prepared to make sure they have the absolute best you can provide them in all aspects of life; why are you having them? If you aren’t ready to let your priorities fall to the wayside while you guide a tiny human into themselves, you aren’t prepared.
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•None of this "what are you thankful for" shit today. What's something you hate?
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Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•None of this "what are you thankful for" shit today. What's something you hate?
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Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•None of this "what are you thankful for" shit today. What's something you hate?
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Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•None of this "what are you thankful for" shit today. What's something you hate?
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Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•None of this "what are you thankful for" shit today. What's something you hate?
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Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•None of this "what are you thankful for" shit today. What's something you hate?
11·5 days agoWhat’s your problem? I wasn’t put on this earth to talk with or educate you. I SAID I no longer have any interest in talking to you; you can’t understand that but you got shining grades?
Why don’t you go demand things from some other person; because I guarantee you don’t want to take this further.
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•None of this "what are you thankful for" shit today. What's something you hate?
11·5 days agoWhen you were in school they gave you your tests face down, didn’t they?
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Lefty Memes@lemmy.dbzer0.com•We're not so different you knowEnglish
41·5 days agoGuess we’ll never know, friend.
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Lefty Memes@lemmy.dbzer0.com•We're not so different you knowEnglish
81·5 days agoDamn, what happened here? I can only feel the warm ground, but I can tell there was a fire.
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•None of this "what are you thankful for" shit today. What's something you hate?
11·6 days agoDid you miss the pound signs and the fact they literally said they were in Bristol, England? They are across the pond, and having an awful time. Also, do you think that America and England don’t have women?
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why are the *you are the problem* comments so common on Lemmy?
11·9 days agoYou 1,000% need to see someone. It’s not even debatable at this point. This thread is a whole case study on why it would be beneficial for you to speak to a therapist.
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why are the *you are the problem* comments so common on Lemmy?
12·9 days agoWow. You need to find a therapist immediately.
Lmaoo it’s all good, It makes sense from the Japanese perspective that they might not be as versed in western history eras. We’re not so versed in their history. I only really know that their “medieval” period was called “the warring states era” because of Inuyasha. Everything else is right though! They do love the Victorian era and some people like the fashion and lifestyles pictured in that era (I.e men in pressed suits, women in intricate dress, getting tea poured from a fine teapot by a black and white clad Maid or butler)
Well, medieval maids didn’t look that way. This is more Victorian.
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•After Today's meeting where Trump fell in love with Mamdani, this is MAGA tomorrow morning.
21·13 days agoHell yeah, an Alice in wonderland reference? Very rare👌🏽
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL Bobby Dunbar was kidnapped, and returned to his parents... decades later DNA testing proved he was a different childEnglish
51·14 days agoMaybe your parents don’t know either. They’re just covering all their bases. What if you were kidnapped from another family and switched with the baby they had, at a park or something- while no one was looking? Maybe your parents went through the whole changeling movie and just decided to put it to bed and accept the circumstances. This probably brings you no peace, but to be honest; it doesn’t matter too much if you did or didn’t, they’re still your parents for better or worse. (I look almost exactly like my mom, so I know I’m hers, but it’s not a warm thought if it makes you feel better)
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Steam Hardware@sopuli.xyz•is it fine to leave steam deck in sleep mode instead of turning it off?
1·14 days agoYeah, most cases act as kind of an insulator which is one of the reasons to just kinda turn it off if it’s in the case and you’re traveling, but otherwise not. Luckily it is pretty durable and won’t just sweat itself to death immediately.
Isolde@lemmy.worldto
Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Dude read the rules of woman only community and decided to post anywayEnglish
42·15 days agoWell, the fact that women are existing and don’t want to interact with any of them is already discomforting to them; so I don’t suppose it takes much.



Just spam impeachments fuck it. Why not at this point?