Desecrates is the good term, reading the ketchup thing made me remember when I was in montreal at a fast food shawarma and pizza place, they also had poutine but with GRATED CHEESE, I was hurt

I never used sync on reddit (was on boost) The dark overlay feature is absolutely amazing for me

Personally I don’t pay for ultra and don’t really notice the ads

I think there has to be a balance.

Most people that are “toxic” exhibits habits ingrained from childhood or trauma, they are some time aware of those habits, and the scope of the habits can be relatively limited in some cases or more generalized in others.

I would say that if that person has a “toxic” reaction, they have to be aware that they had a bad reaction, own to it and apologize later WHEN things have calmed down in their heads.

The toxic occurences in the relationship with the person should also be at a ratio where the good feelings/moments with that person are at a bare mininum of 75% vs 25% toxic. You need time to “recharge” to be able to be patient and understanding with that person when the toxic reaction is aimed at you.

So yeah balance, and if the balance doesn’t overall feel good for you, then it’s not good for you, cut it.

I alternate between beehaw and lemmy.ca, and this way I have almost no downtime, if lemmy.ca goes down (it does so very rarely) , I just switch to the beehaw temporarily to lurk

I really love it! Works better than jerboa on my side.

But waiting for “boost for lemmy” and I’ll see then

Yup happy to pay what I pay for youtube premium and youtube music, totally worth it for both!

Maybe I could find it expensive if it was only one service

Try connect for lemmy, you can enable notifications

Hi, you can look into “discrete mathematics” if you’re interested in the overall subject of math for programmers, it was one of my hardest class but highly intesting!

Hey btw Boost is coming to lemmy also!