Wondering what your take on this is.

  • Today@lemmy.world
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    23 days ago

    I leave them in if it’s someone i care about. I lost a school kid last year. Took his files out of my drawer today.

  • zxqwas@lemmy.world
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    21 days ago

    Apparently I delete them. I could think of one person I’ve had the phone number of that died 10 years ago or something. I don’t have their contact details anymore.

    I’ve not had any close family die the last decade so that answer may change.

  • Noble Shift@lemmy.world
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    23 days ago

    If they had a significant role in my life I’ll leave them and add a yearly calendar event so that hopefully they don’t die the second time, at least while I’m alive.

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    23 days ago

    I add the ⚱️emoji to their name.

    Makes them easy to search for and stop to have a moment of reflection on their effect on my life.

  • stoy@lemmy.zip
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    23 days ago

    I let it stay untill I am ready to delete it.

    When my grand parents died I kept the entry in my phonebook untill one day some time later when cleaning up the contacts I didn’t see a reason why I should keep it.

  • thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org
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    23 days ago

    I let it stay.

    It is weird when someone that uses the number joins signal though… I want to reach out to them because I miss my brother but its a good reminder that life marches on with or without you. And we should let the ones who have left, go.

  • tehWrapper@lemmy.world
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    23 days ago

    I have another address book I move them to that is a archive for past contacts. Past work contacts etc… never had to go back to it, but good to know I can. Also don’t have random people I have not contacted in 10 years still on my day to day address book.