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    2 months ago

    Fake, but even if it was true, the problem would have probably been the age change and not the gender change. Teenage relationships and adult relationships have different rules…

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        Yeah, I have to assume 18 year old women are on average way, way, way poorer than 40 year old men. That’s true regardless of the gender, 40 tends to be a pretty high spot in personal capital.

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          My eyes rolled so hard on this one lol. An 18 year old woman has 40 year old losers waiting in line to buy them shit. Free drinks in the bar, free vacation, free meals, free shopping trips. 10k a month for “feet pics” on only fans 🤮.

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            Those are really weird incel beliefs.

            But, for levity, please explain what is wrong with this:

            10k a month for “feet pics” on only fans

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              It’s weird that you refuse to actively reject reality. Good npc energy yum. Did you notice that only fans made more than the salary of the combined NBA?

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                What is wrong with making money on OnlyFans? What is wrong with making money in the NBA? I am now more confused.

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                  I didn’t say anything was wrong with it. People just seem to think there isn’t any money in being an 18 year old woman they are all broke lol.

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                    Ah, I think I understood now. You’re saying that 18 year old women have money because they are more easily able to be sex workers.

                    And you don’t see why that is a horrible viewpoint to have? I mean, it definitely feels sexist and like you are reducing young women to their value as sex objects. It also feels like you would expect young women to act like this.

                    I hope you realize that isn’t how most people, let alone young women, act, and also that most sex workers are pretty varied in gender and age.

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                Experiencing your “reality” that you or some insecure manosphere shitheel just made up to justify hating women, which you wouldn’t know is false because you’ve never in your miserable life actually talked to a woman who was comfortable sharing those intimate details of her personal life with you? No, no I’m not.

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      And also gay.

      Lemmy dumping on Reddit via a 4chan greentext

      I’m so proud of this community.

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          They don’t really. They are often learned the hard way, because no one attempts to explain them or just acts like they know but doesn’t really.

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        It depends entirely on the maturity of the parties involved, it’s not really an “older/younger” thing.

        But generally, the less mature you are, the more a relationship is selfish, i.e. you want to be in a relationship for your personal advantage, i.e. “i get sex when I have a girlfriend”. The more mature you get, the more relationships go into the direction of “I want to make the other person happy”. You still get your sex or whatever other advantage of course, but it’s much more fulfilling if you can actually give the other person what they need, and temporarily losing your personal benefit of the relationship doesn’t cause immediate breakups.