So I’m pretty sure most of you guys also came from reddit. Or at least, a majority of you did. So I think you all understand how addictive it can be. I’m not going to lie, in the past few years I really liked to go up every now and then to troll stupid and harmful people. But lately, I realised it’s all a waste of time because it’s not like I can actually hurt them - I mean I did manage to hurt them but only because they were dumb enough, but it’s not like I can actually “”act upon my judgement”” or any other cringe thing an edgelord can think about. But yeah, I’ve grown tired of negativity, and I want to be a… wholesome person, I think. But sometimes when relaxing, I get the urge to hop back on Reddit to troll some people just because, which I don’t want. I mean don’t misunderstand me, I didn’t entirely gave up on Reddit bc I still have an account there and I do go up if I want to see gaming shit or anything related to my niche interest, I’m just avoiding some specific subreddits. So what should I do? Does anyone else have similar feelings as I do?
Replace it with Tumblr. By the time you have had your fifteen minutes of browsing, you’ll be done for the day.
This is what I do, except with Imgur (and occasionally Bluesky).
Lemmy alone is not big enough to replace reddit yet. You need a supplimental website to complete your social media diet.
It’s plenty big enough for me. But I’m just a simple country doctor, Jim.
Talk about wanting to kill public figures until they permanently ban you
Way too inefficient. Just comment any way about Lemmy and throw in a little #FuckSpez.
That’s my best guess for why two accounts I had got banned on there.
Go on a pitbull-lovers subreddit and suggest that all their dogs should be put down. You’ll get a site wide ban for “promoting violence” right quick.
Best thing I did was browse reddit with a new account without participating. Just enjoying certain content. I deleted my old and made a private email and new account and subbed to the ones I was but no posting or comments just upvote/down ote and reading, watching clicking links etc. I realized I spent too much time conversing and not enough time enjoying some of the content. Less people on Lemmy and can actually get responses to good convos and post feedback. I wish you could follow accounts and specific posts here though.
Use Lemmy instead
Well, if you say you’ve enjoyed trolling people on there. Why not troll so much so that if you try registering, you’re banned within an hour?
Because, I can’t register onto Reddit anymore regardless of what e-mail I use and however. I’m banned within an hour on sight or shadowbanned after posting a couple comments. Not that my banning was primarily because of trolling but funnily enough, my banning was because of dealing with trolls - like you. Ironic.
Well, if you weren’t a harmful person or an asshole, you didn’t get trolled by me 🤷♂️
It sounds like you need to sort yourself out and stick to your convictions
You probably mean well, but this sort of “advice” annoys me. It says what to do but not how to do it. Almost like explaining it would be as hard for the advice giver as it would be for the recipient to implement it, revealing what a sham it really is. It’s practically a heckle. “Boooo! Git gud!”
Yeah this post was low effort as well. It’s easier to assist people who clearly want to make effort and have their head wrapped around it a bit but to attempt to hand somebody all of this while they’ve got a half-assed writeup and lazy ideas, the best I’ve got is to continue refining oneself and ones focus.
This is the same as addicts discussing sobriety without them actually being prepared or willing, it’s a fuckin waste
I’m literally sticking to avoiding Reddit and drama on it tho. That doesn’t mean that sometimes I don’t wish to go back
I’d say that doing a partial switch is much harder than doing a full one. I went all in and just replaced all my bookmarks so that my muscle memory didn’t bring me there but here instead.
I block traffic to their domain on my firewall.
Yep. I swapped my bookmarks, deleted my main account, and just kinda ceased using reddit almost entirely. I still have an alt I use very rarely to browse some niche subs, but that’s about it.
+1 on deleting the account. Having no familiarity was a big leaning factor on going to Lemmy.
I did most of my Reddit browsing via Baconreader, which wasn’t going to be an option anymore. So it basically came down to learn how to use a different Reddit app- which I refused to do purely out of spite- or jump ship to Lemmy and learn that instead.
The next time you feel the urge to browse reddit:
- Go to imgur and browse the category aww
- Spend a few minutes looking at cute dogs and cats
- Carry on with your day, and be proud of yourself that you did not go on reddit.
Bonus link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DOqb_UzJSUQ
Only thing I go back to reddit for is BuckingNoNonsense’s Caves of Qud lore discussions, and I do it not signed in, on old reddit, with as many scripts disabled and blockers on as possible.
Switch to Lemmy - it’s working for me. I like the UI much better.
What’s that panel from?
I round out it’s an original drawing made by someone named Poetaz after playing Letgal Company.
Awesome, thank you!
Edit: looked up Lethal Company. Sounds pretty cool
It’s pretty fun to play with friends. I think it is still under development though.
Don’t expect a polished game or a “good ending” to your space-garbage-corpo-missions
Best way to beat a bad habit is to replace it with a good habit.
The best way to get rid of reddit, or other things, is to remove the allure/possibility to use. Blacklist the reddit app, install an addon that blacklists the reddit website, and maybe even get an adblocker to block any mention of reddit. Just make it really difficult to consume anything from reddit or participate on reddit.
I switched from “Boost for Reddit” to “Boost for Lemmy”, found as many equivalent subs as I could, and just went from there.
Because I’m using essentially the same interface, it’s a very similar experience.
This was my process. I was on Reddit for 13 years before switching to Lemmy. I’ve tried most of the apps and Boost has been my favorite
Not using it on desktop and purely on mobile has been nice too. Cuts out short form content at the same time.
It sounds like you are fundamentally trying to embrace healthier habits. I would suggest starting by examining the feeling. Just spend some time thinking about it before acting. Why do I feel motivated to do this? How will I feel while doing it? How will I feel after? Do I gain something from this worth the downsides?
The goal is to make a decision about what you are doing and why instead of just falling into old patterns of behavior with thought.
