Considering that I’m approaching triple digits, it’d be pretty hypocritical for me to not be comfortable with my partners also having a high count.

Edit to add: Honestly, I prefer that my partners have a decently high count. It means that they know what they’re doing, know what they want, and know how to ask for it. The only downside is that we never have a good answer to the stock question of, “What wild fantasy do you have that you’ve never done?” We’ve all probably done anything that we’ve fantasized about.

For me, I don’t care to know the details of their past relationships. It’s none of my business. If anything, sharing body counts is just another way to shame a partner for something that should not be held against anyone. So what if she sucked 37 dicks? Doesn’t matter if it was in a row or not.

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Assuming no STIs, I honestly don’t care.

I have had zero partners, and I think I’d feel really insecure with someone more experienced. Depending on the person it might not be a dealbreaker, as long as it’s not more than maybe 2 or 3. Although I know that is a very small percentage of people my age :(

I don’t think it would matter, but I’ve never faced that reality so I don’t know for sure.

So “body count” in American English means murders in most contexts. Making this question rather confusing at first.

I can’t answer the first question because my wife and I both have counts of 1: each other. The second question…if I had an issue I would make that clear before a first date of it was indeed a deal breaker.

Personally I’d start to have an issue if they’ve been with over double my count as I think its indicative of a mismatched libido that could lead to problems.

I know for a fact that I am completely comfortable with low double digits and the numbers really aren’t that important. I’m not a high scorer by any means, but never really thought about the numbers. Can’t remember ever asking for a count.

As long as the body count is not murders or abducted people in a basement its fine

Body count is stupid.

As long as someone is honest with you, cares about you, and gotten tested so they aren’t spreading anything… who honestly gives a shit?

Triple digits?! Yare-yare… I guess the main deciding factor would be: are you still a competitive hedonist or have you finally understood the almost sacred and unbreakable relationship between love and sex?

Not something I care about. I was my partner’s 100th. The quantity was much less significant than the meticulous data collection (there was a spreadsheet) but that was an overall plus.

I’m not sure I understand the question. What is STI and in what context should I understand ‘body count’?

Is it sexual partners? If that is so, I don’t give a f… I mean, I don’t care. It’s not some hunting competition, at least not for me or for my spouse.

The only thing I would care is us, my partner and I, being honest about anything happening that could jeopardize our relationship. Including any past or present adventures.

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