“Not quite as pretty as you, thats how I could tell you apart.”
This man wives.
Say, without any perceptible pause whatsoever, “Not nearly as hot as you, that’s how I knew it wasn’t you.”
Rizz 100
“Of course she was, she looked like you”
C’mon dude. You already set this up.
“Pretty, but she lacked your charm.”
Me being awkward: Of course she was. I mean, you are too!!
My wife and I don’t hesitate at all to talk about hot people we see. Is that really so uncommon?
I hope not. I would be miserable in such an insecure relationship.
How is this even hard?
“Nearly as hot as you” should be practically a reflex response.
The reason it’s a hard question is regardless of how you answer, your always in the wrong. “Almost as hot as you” “So you think she’s hot?”
your always in the wrong
So you think she’s hot?”
Is a thing my wife will say to me, before she gives me a kiss and a sexy grin.
Or you can just say yes. You don’t usually stop finding other people attractive when you are in a relationship
I think part of the joke is that lots of the traditional straight ppl out there have wild expectations like not finding others attractive anymore.
My gal and I will turn to each other and do a silent “goddamn” when we see an attractive person. Very refreshing having come off a couple of very jealous relationships
Are people not allowed to find others attractive after they’re married or something? What is this sentiment?
It’s more of a shitpost than a sentiment. My husband and I talk about other attractive people all the time.
Possessiveness, aka jealousy
Boomerisms
Are people not allowed to find others attractive after they’re married or something?
There’s a general taboo against oogling. But its often a question of finesse. Doing a loud wolf-whistle at someone as she passes you is bad form, and doubly so if your wife isn’t wolf-whistling with you.
I guess I’m trying to understand the reasoning for the taboo. Insecurity?
Also rudeness. Playing “hot or not” with every person that crosses your path is considered in poor taste. It objectifies and commodifies them, reducing them to visual spectacles in a way that can quickly become mean-spirited and oafish.
Also, depending on who your oogling, it can get creepy. Fixating on a particular age range or certain ethnic features (even unintentionally) is problematic for a whole host of reasons.
We all have different levels of insecurity. I think it’s common to not want to hurt the feelings of the ones we love
“It was a man actually”
Statuesque blonde, shapely ass, pronounced chest, toned calves, killer smile. What’s not to love?
“Yes, but you give better blowjobs.”
It’s a trap!
Yes you are!
ANSWER THE QUESTION
I thought she was looking a bit chubby recently to be honest
