• tygerprints@kbin.social
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    11 months ago

    Were I a woman, and many people would try in vain to insult me by suggesting it, I certainly would not hook up with men at all. Men do not have the basic decency or intelligence to treat a woman as she deserves. They will always try to rape and hurt women in every instance.

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        11 months ago

        Hmmm not sure what that “pedantry” thing is about, but if it’s what you say you’re into, go for it. And by the way, yes I should be talking and I most certainly will be, as loudly as I can, whether people want to hear the truth or turn away from it. Go now, and begone from my sight.

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        11 months ago

        I’m not taking, I would if I had any to take, but I don’t. I think you mean, I should be taking as much as possible.

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            11 months ago

            Well coming from a limp brained turd monger like yourself - that means literally less than nothing to me.

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              11 months ago

              Buds, I’m not the one making overarching statements about men regardless of their orientation.

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      Stop projecting dude. I know so many upstanding gents who have been amazing partners to whatever gender they are attracted to and are incredibly gentle loving souls. You don’t want to hook up with guys that’s cool but saying they don’t have the capacity to be ethical empathetic human beings is just flat out misandrist thinking.

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        11 months ago

        Then you live in a completely different world that I do. I happen to be gay so, yeah, I’m absolutely OK with hooking up with guys, just let’s get that right. I haven’t yet many a guy with the capacity to have empathy or even admit they have feelings of any kind. Of course when it comes to fucking, it doesn’t matter, but it’s just the way men are. Shallow and unfeeling - and that has its uses.

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          11 months ago

          So, you’re saying you make poor choices on hookups, wind up with self centered lovers, and are now projecting your crappy love life to all men? Sure seems that way to me.

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            11 months ago

            That’s only because you choose to misunderstand what I’m saying to make your own pathetic life look better by comparison. I have never made a poor choice on hookups or anything else in my life, nor do I have much interest in what a scumbag low life’s opinion is about my comments so, you can stick them back up your own ugly butthole where your brains obviously are.

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              Man, your life must be so perfect as someone whos never made any poor choices, I’m so glad I get to talk to the most perfect human being on the internet.

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                11 months ago

                Thank you! It is appreciated. At least someone has the insight to see that I am the most perfect human to ever exist, I have said so many times on this forum. If my horse if so awesomely high, it’s because you people put yours so very low and make it so much easier for me to be perfect. And before you request to fuck me, I’m really not interested.

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      11 months ago

      As a woman who doesn’t hook up with men, nah I don’t do it because they just don’t do it for me.

      That said I know other women who are into men but don’t, and it’s not because men are all bad, but because enough of them are to make gambling like that not worth it. Strawmanning their decision even supportively doesn’t do anything positive.

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        11 months ago

        I’m gay myself (and a guy) but I think that women are more sympathetic and even emotionally (I really do). My first sexual experiences were hetero and I loved that the girls were into whatever I did, it was great, but they were more into feelings associated with it. Guys are more into, wham bam, thank you whoever you are, now get out.

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          Ah yeah, no it’s definitely weird to me how that goes for y’all. In my experience lesbian hookups include about half an hour of buildup conversation minimum and half an hour or so of talking after. Maybe even grabbing dinner. I love it lol.

          But yeah your complaints are things I’ve heard gay and bi men complain about and brag about.

          When it comes to sex idk, but I definitely think that in general that emotional honesty and care is a learned behavior. And it’s really unfortunate how many men struggle with these traits as they’re part of being emotionally well adjusted.

          And I will say just to reassure, you don’t have to hookup just because you’re a guy. You can prioritize romance, connection, and emotionally mature men.

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        11 months ago

        I suppose that’s some kind of uber insult meant to dismantle my self-esteem. Which it couldn’t even if it were bathed in acid. But, that’s the kind of infantile response I expect from you people these days.