Dear linux users. Is it a red flag if she is active in a Catholic Dating group?
Edit:. and that she is still on reddit?
Run
The ‘she’ part works for me!
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Blazing red flag.
Why would they need to date anyway? That’s just questioning God’s Plan for them.
It’s God’s way of training them for their true partner. Free will and all that. Now kisth.
God works in mysterious ways. Maybe their one and only, doesnt even use an iphone!
Yes. We only accept our true gods and leaders here: Linus, Richard, Tux and Xenia.
You mean Xena, right?
Oh. TIL. This fox is cute as well :)
as jesus intended
As long as they’re not using BSD, obviously.
Don’t mention it, you’ll confuse them even more…
I’m 99% sure that they’re joking.
You’d be surprised how people think.
Jokes on them, I’m real bad with money and went into debt and destroyed my credit!
But I run proxmox for fun 😎
Casholic with a lisp.
No way am I dating a Catholic. I will not be a “cash cow” for their weird religion.
These girls are old school. You make the money, they pump out the children. They don’t believe in birth control or abortion, so if you want to maximize your reproductive fitness, you could do worse than a Catholic girl.
Good providers, not lovers
No way am I dating a Catholic
There are a lot of hot Catholics.
A few of them even are in your area.
If only I were able to click some sort of link to be able to meet with hot Catholics in my area. Oh well.
Yeah but then you’re dating a catholic. Gross.
Dated a few of Catholics, and they aren’t any grosser than the Protestants, Atheists, Muslims, or Buddhists I’ve been with.
There were hot nazi chicks, what’s your point?
Ok Stalin
???
I’m going out on a limb and I’m going to guess “sex”.
Is there any reason all(or most) catholics would want that and it isnt just these people on reddit?
I grew up Catholic, and (at least here, Catholicism is a really big place) it’s not so much “he has money” as it is “he will bring stability.”
The second commenter’s “cash cow” comment is a bit of an outlier in my experience, because usually the highlights of dating a nerd are more akin to the second comment. They’ll be an active father and attentive husband, and they’re less likely to cheat (in their view). I’ve also heard things like this about D&D/Warhammer players, because they use their imagination alot (making them good at entertaining children) and the hobbies take a lot of focus (meaning they’ll be willing and able to tackle problems that arise).
Older catholics are used to men whose only role in the family is “produce baby and produce money”, so a lot of modern dating advice is in the guise of “make sure he’s a good man before you marry him”
Because most people nowadays see everything as a transaction, including “love”. You really can’t expect anything else in a society that sees everything through the prism of money.
American?
I mean it could be true everywhere but it dure seems exacerbated in rhe USA.
I don’t have to be, things are not much different everywhere else.
Because most people nowadays see everything as a transaction
Because most
peopleconservatives nowadays see everything as a transactionFTFY
Yeah, as if liberals are immune to that kind of rationing.
Define “liberal”. Many liberals these days are conservative rather than progressive, so I won’t disagree with your statement.
Conservatives are not able to experience empathy for anyone outside of their in-group, so they tend to see every interaction with “others” as transactional.
Conservatism is a vile plague of inhumanity, oppression and death and should be treated as such. It is due for a cure.
Conservatism is a vile plague of inhumanity, oppression and death and should be treated as such. It is due for a cure.
And yet they seem to be the majority, or close to it. So one has to ask, why is that so many people turn to it. It has to give them value. And is that value real or perceived.
For some it is very real, usually the exceptionally wealthy. Which means conservatism is profitable.
Not having empathy for anyone outside of your in group would make it easy to dismiss or justify the fact that the first rule of capitalism is find a weakness and exploit it
Conservativism and Capitalism are closely tied. They both profit from people’s weaknesses and flaws.
But more so that Catholics and other fundamentalists expect the man to be the provider, and largely base the worth of the man on how much money he makes. If you think that’s gross and demeaning, then don’t fucking date Catholics lol
Really? I thought Catholicism was about Jesus, sharing, caring, love… guess I was wrong… who would have thought that a religion that is allegedly supposed to spread piece and love, would be all about money, huh 🤔.
When has Catholicism never been about money? They literally have codified paying your way into heaven for nearly 2000 years with “indulgences” lol
It’s like one of the most blatant examples of a corrupt religion being used to control and siphon money from people, it has one of the most well documented, terrible histories.
I’m a nerd and dirt poor, what am I doing wrong?
Nerding. Duh.
You’re not doing work around the house.
Follow me for more insightful thoughts 👍.
you may have yourself checked, you may be a dork, which is a nerd without marketable abilities
Oh shit
You need to install Linux for the money to come.
Okay, I’m putting together a second PC for Linux Mint, especially as I need Linux for testing.
take stuff apart and put it back together. install obscure operating systems. build a network and servers for just yourself. put multiple operating systems on the same computer. repair a broken laptop or phone. just fun things like that
Any pointers how to get into FreeBSD? I might need that for my game engine, especially as two of the main three consoles nowadays use some heavily modified versions of it (even if unfortunately I have to provide them as closed-source addons to the engine, since neither Sony nor Nintendo don’t like open sourcing their stuff).
easiest would be to install it on a ras pi: https://freebsdfoundation.org/freebsd-project/resourcesold/installing-freebsd-for-raspberry-pi/
another easy way to get started is to install it in a VM. once you have the process down, you could try installing it to a secondary disk or partition on hardware.
anyone who picks at every little thing a partner or potential partner does by requiring the Internet to approve it is toxic as hell. asking the Internet if a behavior that doesn’t effect you is a red flag is a massive red flag.
TBF, if a potential partner is super excited about something you never heard of, looking into it is a good thing.
Conservatives, and other assholes, are good about hiding their crazy behind seemingly innocent things, like pepe the frog.
Where are the leftist pepe fans at?
I misread that as “Where are the leftist Pope fans at?” and thought Europe, but then I realised my mistake.
i mean, it’s more about letting the Internet decide for them. a person that is so incapable of making their own assessments that they have to ask a random mob permission to date another isn’t going to be a good person to date. didn’t be or date someone that would trust random Internet weirdos who collectively have an incredibly awful track record of giving advice over just talking about it or doing some reading.
But why would your question be “is this bad?” Just learn a little about it and decide for yourself.
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That person should’ve seen how much gold I farmed in WoW using my Honorbuddy bot!
SpongeBob and Ariana Grande are exhibit A
Waifus don’t count to normies.
The messiest polycule breakup / explosion was a bunch of autistic IT workers around the DC area. Sub Dom drama plus one dude fucked his pesudo-girlfriends sister.
I’d just got back from working overseas and was renting a room in their house. Just kinda watching the whole thing burn. While getting back to normal.
Being poly doesn’t make relationships less real, how ignorant. She wasn’t a pseudogirlfriend. He was also a real piece of shit.
If he’s poly and and she’s poly and everyone knew everything, is it still awful of him to have sex with her sister? Seems like it’s OK if it’s OK with everyone, even if other people find it gross?
Why do people think poly=no boundaries?
I know of very very few poly people who would be okay with that. And even if they were, poly requires open communication, and he did it behind her back (which we know she wasn’t okay with it because it ended their relationship). So a double whammy.
Highly recommend the book Opening Up to understand how many different types of poly there are and what they might look like.
Sorry, I didn’t mean to cause offence at all, I just assumed that in a poly relationships the boundaries were open for negotiation, and that like you say open communication would be key. I didn’t know he went behind her back, I know nothing about this story other than what I read on this thread.
I get that in a conventional relationship, leaving someone for their best friend or their sibling would be a particularly heinous betrayal, but didn’t assume that that would be the same for someone in a poly relationship. I didn’t mean to offend anyone by asking and I apologise for any and all offence caused.
I get that and I appreciate how respectful you’re being. I think we can tell by the subtext that it wasn’t okay to sleep with her sister (they broke up over this, after all)… and also that is kinda soft incest (to share a sex partner between siblings) so majority of poly people in the west would really not be okay with it due to social norms.
Lol 🤣, wtf 🤣🤣🤣.
Not being funny but when it comes to Catholic dating at least they’re looking for income and not age this time 😂
This was addressed to ladies. Look for the post addressed to Catholic men.
Not being funny but making a humorous statement and ending it with 😂
Thanks for the analysis boss 👍
Should have defragged first.
In a confession Aug. 21, however, Reiser said he used “the most unsophisticated chokehold that any judo instructor would completely despise you for ever using,” according to a 30-page transcript obtained by The Chronicle
I probably shouldn’t laugh, but… :D
At least he critiqued his own work instead of assuming it was the best thing ever.
It’s a narcissistic attempt to diminish his culpability by saying it was a weak attack without special training.
Compare with “I barely even touched her!”
Oh that’s what happened to RieserFS
An object lesson in bus factor.
Why is she even asking the question? Shouldn’t she just be quiet and submit like her magic book tells her to?
Also lol at nerds automatically not cheating
They fail to realize that we are also human… not only that, but we’re undersexed humans.
What? Nah I was just thinking because most of the nerds I know have multiple partners.
You might wanna share some people from your contact list 😁.
It’s literally any alternative lifestyle community. I’ve never lived somewhere that didn’t have board game nights for the bdsm community. Lots of polyamory and nerdiness there
Not many of those where I live unfortunately.
undersexed
I learn a new word every day.
Yeah, I made that one up 😁.
The weird thing is, spell check didn’t underline it 🤔.
Yeah, I made that one up 😁.
All words are made up.
Hm, also true 👍.
Interesting
Yep, not what I thought it meant…
Why does this sound AI generated
Nope, there’s a link somewhere in this thread.
If there’s a link it means a human wrote it!
You have a point there…
because it might be
