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NONE@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 23 days ago

Lesbians, Gays and bisexuals, Do you look like someone you would have sex with?

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Lesbians, Gays and bisexuals, Do you look like someone you would have sex with?

NONE@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 23 days ago
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    deleted by creator

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    23 days ago

    What a weird question

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      23 days ago

      Yeah, right?

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      22 days ago

      For many gay men, the “Do I want to date him or be him?” Issue can cut hard, so I’m not sure it’s that weird.

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        22 days ago

        I mean, that sounds like a different problem to me.

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        This has been the defining struggle of my queer existence lol

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    22 days ago

    Yeah

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    19 days ago

    I think I’d like myself as another person, but am still properly critical of myself as me.

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    No, I like both men and women with dark hair/eyes/complexion and I look the complete opposite. I definitely have a type. Oddly, my brother, though straight, has the same preferences in women and he and I look alike.

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    23 days ago

    ABSOLUTELY YES.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      23 days ago

      HELL YEAH!!

    • illi@lemm.ee
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      22 days ago

      In that case… go fuck yourself!

      • slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org
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        22 days ago

        Respectfully

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        22 days ago

  • CelloMike@lemmy.world
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    22 days ago

    My husband and I have been mistaken for brothers before so… Yeah

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      👀

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    22 days ago

    That definitely is the case with me (say in around 70% of cases?).

    I think in my mind, people that are my type = attractive. I want to be attractive. Therefore, my ideal look = the body type I am attracted to. Thankfully, I have almost achieved my ideal “look” or whatever.

    So yeah, I do look like people I have sex with usually.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      22 days ago

      That is exactly my line of thinking.

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    Fuck yea I’m hot.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      On Fire!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

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        Ditto~

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    Hell nah

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    Yes lol

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    politics, values, and kinks are way more important than appearance

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      22 days ago

      Yeah, but i asked especially if you or anyone looked like someone they would like to have sex with.

      So, do yo?

      (This is just a chill and funny question, pal. Just play along if you will)
      • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.ca
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        Appearance is never a sufficient factor on its own, but in my own case appearance, I wouldn’t consider it a disqualifying factor. Though me a few years ago wouldn’t have to try as hard, for sure…

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          Good to know, thanks for play along! And you’re right, appearance is not everything. If someone is veey attractive and even my type, but is the biggest piece of shit ever, I’m just not interested at all.

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            Honestly, decent people are so rare, one cannot afford to be fussy about appearance. Fortunately, ethical compatibility is VERY attractive.

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              Hell yeah! Nothing’s more sexy than stand for humans rights!

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                Needlessly speciesist but it’s a good start

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    I think I kinda did ten or fifteen years ago, but I’m a bear/dad now and I’m much more into rugged women than rugged men. My taste in men runs twink-ish, usually.

    My wife has aged similarly though, which very much works for me.

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      That’s fair, My taste in men also leans more towards twinks, and currently I look kind of twink-y. But maybe if I keep gaining weight and muscle, while I don’t think I’ll end up looking “bad”, maybe I’ll stop being my type.

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    Nope, with same gender folk I find they usually have something striking or unusual in their appearance and I’m far too normal middle of the road looking to fit that.

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    Yeah. I’m definitely my type

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