Be it a personality quirk, something they’re wearing, or just the way they look. What makes them instantly hot?
Bravery. My wife she’s a revolutionary. She was on the street when they kicked out the dictator and they were shooting real bullets. I admire her
Fuck yeah
holy hell yea
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It’s 2: Intelligent and kind
… according to Wikipedia, body symmetry
Other qualities tend to rely on frequency of interaction and are not instant
This is like Nazi shit with “inherent attractiveness theories” or whatever bs imperialism
Not easily predictable without being completely random.
Having a good “look” or dressing well goes a long way for me. Not even just one particular style, so long as theyre owning it with confidence and flair.
Being kind
It used to be a pulse, but at my age I can’t be so picky.
Feels like digging up corpses is something you’d need youth for
Sure, but how many of them do you bring?
If you can get a youth to dig corpses up for you, I think you’ve negated the need for the corpses in the first place
No accounting for taste
Just need a job as a mortician, or become friends with a mortician who has questionable morals and needs money.
Belief in and support for Universal Basic Income.
genuineness.
Aside from all the things that are instant turn-offs…
Being hopeful.
Also seem to get drawn to BPDUnapologetic intellectual curiosity! I absolutely love being around people who love learning new things and who get excited to find out more when they discover a new topic.
It’s one of the first qualities that really stood out when I first met my husband - in a University lecture with 1000 people, he just nonchalantly sat down in the frontmost row because that’s where he could hear the professor the best and ask questions. No shyness or awkwardness about it, which I found incredibly inspiring for some reason! I usually hid in one of the back rows because I was massively overthinking everything and afraid that the professor might call me out when he sees me not paying attention.Being my wife
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I also choose this guy’s wife.
I choose this guy’s wife’s husband.
Assuming she’s married to a dude.
I’m a lonely male so the answer is if they give me a modicum of attention and kindness.
Its this.
IDK about “lonely” exactly but I definitely dont get a lot of attention or kindness from people.
Now I think about it i dont offer much either but thats life i guess.
Heyyyyyyy
I’m a non-lonely male and my answer is basically the same.
Every drop of water makes the river, don’t forget you’re a part of the world, and you’re important, even if it doesn’t always feel that way.
A good wink. A guy can be medium attractive or not my type, but if they make a little joke and then give me individually a subtle wink, I’m smitten.
Not talking about a compliment followed by a wink. A joke, and then they let me in on it with them with a wink.
I am the total opposite, if you wink at me I’m going to be wholly creeped out.
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In love yet?
Yes, but not with them eyes
that’s my girl!
I’m with you there. Winking is very creepy indeed to me.
How do you feel if someone who is not medium attractive winks at you?
Or if they just say something weird, like a joke you don’t appreciate, and wink at you?
I guess there has to be some kind of established not-a-creepy-stranger before risking a wink becomes appropriate.
Physically unattractive, but a good wink would still pique my interest, but it’s never happened to me. Winking is kind of rare. It’s like proof that they’re fast, clever, and confident, and that they desire a rapport with me.
Yes, the wink has to be paired with something clever, or wise, or nice. Some kind of friendly banter. You’d have to be already attractive to wink out of the blue, but if you’re already attractive and you wink, I’d probably like that too. It’s conveying interest. It’s conspiratorial and playful.
Funny.
