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Girlfriend
I mean, obviously fictitious and elatedly happy
That being said, there really are people like that. I’ve been in that situation, and I’ve seen it happen plenty. Maybe not those exact words, but sometimes , yes “I could have you if I wanted”
There really are people that are both so arrogant as to believe they’re that “good”, and so narcissistic that whether or not you’re interested doesn’t matter.
Like, I’m not some kind of super studly dude. I’m big, and strong, but I’m also hairy, balding, have always had at least a little belly on me, wear glasses, and have a round face, so I don’t have those chiseled features that folks get wet over. But I do pretty damn good. My kind of look has a degree of popularity, and the mind inside the body makes it work. So this isn’t some kind of situation where everything is chasing me.
That being said, it is really annoying how often some shitty excuse for a human being has assumed that I would just jump in the sack with them, much less anything more. And it isn’t even the stereotypical “hot babes” either. Just women that assume that because they have a pussy, a guy is going to fall into the damn thing. You kinda expect narcissism when someone is on the prowl, looking for hookups and arm candy. But when you’re at a casual dinner party, and they’re coming at you with that kind of thinking, it’s extra extra. I mean, it isn’t always women, but the women tend to be more insistent, and more about demeaning you than men are.
When it’s guys, you make it clear you’re hetero, and it’s “oh, well then” and it almost always ends there, or with a simple “if you tried this, that might change”, and then they’re done.
But the women that think that way? It’s like they pin their whole sense of self on the idea that they can have any guy, no matter what. And, if you aren’t the classically handsome dude, you’re insulting them by just refusing to agree that if they wanted you, they could. Like, motherfucker, you’re insulting me just by saying that you don’t want me, and you’re adding in the assumption that my dick is in control of me? GTFO.
You know what’s funny though? Only ever had one stripper try that shit. Bounced gay bars and titty bars off and on for years. You’d think strippers would be more prone to that kind of thing than other professions. Not for me. I would get the whole “it’s a shame you’re such a good guy, I’d ruin you” here and there, bit that’s a whole different thing entirely.
Ran into it most with nurses, but I worked in that field more than as a bouncer, so they’re disproportionately represented in the people I would have extended interactions with.
I eventually learned to just say okay and walk away. That kind of thinking, there’s no point in arguing, and you can’t change the subject, so you just leave.
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Nice :)
Ngl, I was expecting mankind to get slammed at the end, but that’s even better
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Unexpected Gilgamesh. Well done!
G I R U G A M E S H ! ! !
I think I just cringed at my self.
ow.
fake and gay
Imaginary and ecstatic
Woosh.
yes “I could have you if I wanted”
i mean, in some twisted sense of the word, if they were a better/different person, they could have them.
What happened?
A 4channer made up a story for attention.
So… in other words, fake and gay
How dare you.
Gay people don’t make up stories on the internet for attention.
I’m not sure about that. One of the gay dudes on our discord is constantly making shit up stories based off crap he read on the internet he thinks the rest of us have somehow not seen already.
The fake ones do.
I’m sure some exist, but not to the extent of “straight” young teenage males.
I was just goofin, I don’t have any sort of insight into that, I just saw gay and needed to add fake. It was important for dumb brain
No problem. I do the same, sometimes I make a joke that falls flat, but sounded hilarious in my head.
Have a good one, thanks for the thoughtful response.
What would be a good response? “Maybe. But you just made it much less likely with that sentence alone.”
IME the vast majority of women have no clue how to react to being rejected, because it almost never happens to them. As such, nearly all react badly or maladaptively regardless of conditions.
Conversely, for most men they have to endure rejection hundreds if not thousands of times before they strike it lucky. The small cohort that become maladaptive do so due to other social/societal reasons associated with the rejection, but vanishingly few react maladaptively purely because of the rejection.
Tell that to the surprisingly large number of men who threaten fucking violence against a girl for not wanting to go out with them.
I’m not saying you’re entirely wrong, but it’s not the only side of the story. Generally all people are really bad at handling emotions with other people, we need to make a stronger effort to turn these criticisms inward and figure out if our fears of other people are justified.
Yay for casual misogyny.
Our current western culture is one of violent misandry.
Women are being released from almost all historical expectations and constraints, which is wonderful and good. This is actual progress in action, however lopsided and gender-supremacy-like it might be.
Meanwhile, men are still constrained by all the historical expectations set out for them, yet have been completely stripped of all benefits that have traditionally accrued with those expectations being met. And yet, we are still being violently nailed to the wall - invariably by women ignoring and/or outright demeaning us - when we fail to meet those expectations.
This massive asymmetry that men experience is what is creating subgroups of disaffected men. Because 1ncels don’t just leap out of the ground, fully formed – they are a direct response to the unintended consequences of women trying to eat their cake and to have it as well. Think about that next time women refuse to date down, or demand a “666 man”, or expect the man to pay on the first date, or any other archaic and gender-bigoted expectation.
Go back to 4chan, incel.
Any man who has had the misfortune of finding out she didn’t actually want him to open up to her when she said “you never let me in!” understands this double-standard.
While I agree with you, I don’t think it’s fair to characterize all of society as misandrist based on that. There’s a significant number of things that you’re ignoring or are not privy to, where women are harmed by men. The patriarchy isn’t just this fantasy that feminists made up, it’s a real thing, and while not as powerful as it used to be it still harms women substantially.
I think it’s fairer to say that some parts of our culture are misandrist, some misogynist. And on the whole, women have it worse - but men also have it pretty bad.
There’s a significant number of things that you’re ignoring or are not privy to, where women are harmed by men.
You mean, like… domestic violence?
Dropping fucking truths
They really aren’t though.
Radical 🤙
You’re totally right there’s absolutely no evidence of a vast majority of women being physically attacked or assaulted after rejecting a man who couldn’t handle rejection…
Also if you got a thousand rejections before getting one yes then that might be a huuuge reason to look at yourself and how you come across. Hundreds of thousands of rejections have to be because of the person themselves, not the hundreds or thousands of people rejecting them.
Bruh, who the fuck is being rejected “hundreds, if not thousands” times? Maybe some people are, but thats such a red flag that I would argue then maybe they should change their approach in the first place.
Maybe you are exaggerating (it just makes you sound a bit like an incel, apologies), and I probably would argue men do get rejected more then woman, because men are still (mostly) expected to make the first move, but like you don’t need experience handling rejection to not have a violent rage fit.
Edit: I have read another one of your replies down the chain, and uh yeah you definitely do sound a lot like an incel.
Yea… I’m well into middle age and I’ve been rejected like a dozen or so times maybe. I’m not sure how you get rejected 100s or 1000s unless you’re just swinging at everyone in your vicinity that happens to have a vagina. Maybe try talking to them first and see if there’s some chemistry there before going for a date…
I’m in my 30s and probably at over 100 rejections like, total in my life. I’ve never been looking for long term relationships so I do try with a larger number of women than most men. But like…hundreds of rejections between success? That’s absurd. You’d run out of women.
Hahaha. Just another case of being gay unbeknownst to OP.
“The odds are good, but the goods are odd.”
“That’s
myno secret. Anyone could have me”It’s funny, I has this exact scenario play out with a guy friend in college. It ruined our friendship. We were friends for maybe two years at that point and I was taken aback because I never saw him as anything but a friend and he even had a girlfriend at the time!
After that exchange, he got so awkward the friendship fell apart. We still had classes together but he avoided me and I was not pressed to be near him, so we never saw each other again after that semester.
Anon isn’t smart lol
Anon is very smart and too good for this person
That would have been an easy lay for anon.
This story is fictional, but it seems as though anon was disinterested in the easy lay, which we as the audience are meant to derive satisfaction from.
You guys are SO FRICKIN’ WEIRD.
I am extremely weird, man, I’m not trying to judge someone in any sense for being weird or asocial or whatever. But what sort of porn logic is this where someone’s opposite-sex friend is lightly flirting with him and the widely upvoted reactions range from “SHE’S AN EMOTIONAL TRAINWRECK RUN AWAY SHE DESERVES TO SUFFER” all the way to “FUCK HER, FUCK HER BRAINS OUT, SHE WANTS IT!”
It’s not even clear that she likes him for real. Sometimes friends interact with each other. Jesus Christ man. This is a fairly normal type of human interaction, not anything advanced or sophisticated, and the majority Lemmy opinion is apparently just a big sperglord house of horrors.
Back in the good ol’ days we understood that the internet is all lies and only exists for porn.
It’s all false and and sexually stereotyped
So… Fake and gay?
That’s one way of putting it i suppose.
Misleading and overly jocular.
It has been 11,182 days since it began.
The… they kept coming, and joining… and the seasons lost their familiarity… their very meaning… it became just a blurring vortex, an intensifying torrent of ever increasing ignorance and rage.
I … can barely remember now, what it was like before…
11,182 days … of September.
It’s not that serious brother.
there’s no context, that’s the problem. Depending on their friendship this could be very normal, or it could be very weird, without any context this is batshit insane.
This is not a normal kind of human interaction, on the girl’s part.
It very strongly indicates she is a spoiled brat, a narcissist.
If you think this kind of interaction is normal… well I see two possible explanations:
You are also a narcissist and that’s why you think this is normal.
OR
You are surrounded by narcissists who have gaslit you into thinking this is normal, and you haven’t had too many regular interactions with non narcissists.
Also, I don’t see anywhere near as many total upvotes for ‘she’s into you dude, frost that cupcake!’ as I do for ‘this is the biggest red flag imaginable, let me write a short essay explaining why’
In fact, yeah, I don’t see a single comment advocating the anon dive into her… affairs, over this.
You forget the ancient wisdom though : do NOT stick your dick in crazy.
Solid advice, but the problem is, crazy will rock your world…
You’re right but wear a raincoat and you’ll be okay.
Which is why he is smart.
Have you guys ever spent time with a real person in real life interactions lmao
I’ve been married for 13 years and have a daughter…
So no.
yeah, if anybody is stating that they could (presumably) get sex from anybody, that’s borderline rape at some point.
ಠ_ಠ
Borderline rape? Really?
People say shit like this and I wonder how much meat space experience they have with… really, anything.
Anyone else read “The Anxious Generation” yet?
Borderline rape? Really?
if you logically extend it into the future, where this would be an actual thing that actually happened, yes at some point it would become rape, it’s just not really a thing you should argue.
People say shit like this and I wonder how much meat space experience they have with… really, anything.
it doesn’t really matter, if you’re saying that you could have sex with anybody specifically one person, and that person doesn’t consent (which is a very real possibility) then at that point you would necessitate violating consent.
It’s just not a healthy way to think about sex.
Anyone else read “The Anxious Generation” yet?
unfortunately not, i’m busy watching the downfall of the US society atm, so.
if you logically extend it into … argue
Wow.
No one actually thinks like this in real life.
yeah and this is the comment section of the thread of a 4chan post.
It’s not that deep bro.
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Some women have never been told no. It can be more fun than saying yes sometimes though.
Bro this is basically an invitation for you to say “prove it”
lol you are jellous bro you don’t have female friends. I have, and this really happened to me with so many females more than one also
Lol you caught at least 8 n counting with this. there’s some real anger hahaha nice jorb
Nobody cares
Opps… one female is calling me. I don’t have time to reply. See you later virgins!
i’m sure you’ve slayed so much puss with your massive meat rod please tell anonymous internet people more about your triumphs slamming clam.
I’m in the middle of a party with so many females. having good time and no time to talk to internet losers lol. Now ordering pizza for Claire, one of my female friends, who I’ve hit before you know, haha sexually that is.
Read this in JFK’s voice from clone high 😂
Damn this white boy quirked up!
She does cheap ear piercings on the side.
good bait bro
I’m sure everyone has their own answer to this question but I would really like her to clarify, what do you mean ‘have me’?
I think the better clarification we need to make is that this is 4chan and thus utterly made-up bullshit, or designed to further an agenda.
Please let it be pegging
‘Nuh uh’
‘Yuh huh!!’
‘prove it’!
‘no u’
