Not their marriage to each other, but I went to my dad’s second wedding, when I was in my twenties. Nice guerrilla ceremony at an art museum
Not yet. My dad’s wedding is next year.
Am I a bastard?
Yes.
I’m not a bastard, but I’m a bandaid. My sister and I like to debate which is worse (:
The first wedding I ever attended was my father’s. The second ever was my mother’s. The third was mine.
Congratulations!
If you don’t attend your wedding, then it’s not your wedding!
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They married ages before we were born. I attended my mother’s second marriage. I wasn’t invited to my father’s second marriage because his mistress was and is a fucking asshat.
no, my mother got remarried while I was out of the state
My dad didn’t have a wedding when he got remarried, but he invited me to be there when the papers were signed. Then he did it without telling me 🤷♀️ so “no” I guess. One day he was just like “oh yeah we got married yesterday”…
I was the 3-year-old ring bearer.
Our son was 14 at our wedding, his bio-dad died when he was 3.
My biological parents relationship was transactional.
I was 3 when I attended my parents’ wedding. I guess I should note not my dad and birth mom.
I met my birth mom many years later. She stressed how she and my dad were briefly married when I was born, so I wasn’t a bastard, and that she gave birth in FL, not MI — the only home I remembered — so I wasn’t a damn Yankee. Like she did me some kindness in both those cases.
That was the attitude that led me to be quite happy with my circumstances — acting like I was in her debt over things I had no care over. So yeah, I attended the wedding of my dad and the only woman I’ll ever call mom.
In China where my parents are from, people aren’t supposed to have sex before marriage, so I couldn’t possibly have been conceived before the marriage/wedding. Typical conservatism lol
(Btw porn is illegal in like many area of the world, westerners are lucky to be able to enjoy… content… 🤭)
That’s right, it’s an issue in Catholicism too. That’s why my sister wasn’t conceived before marriage, she was just born a few months early 😉😉
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Whoa. At what point does a person think to themselves, “Maybe it’s me. Maybe I’m the problem.”?
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Jesus jumped up christ!!! What a glutton for punishment! I can not even fathom that… I was married once, and after my divorce, I thought “I will never do that again.”
My ex and I continued to co-parent, she got engaged and pregnant, then they split up. We continued to coparent, qnd eventually she came to me and confessed undying love to me and begged to get back together.
I told her we could try and work things out, but I would never get married again. So we tried and lo and behold a few months later she was pregnant with someome elses child.
Needless to say, each time she has begged to get back together in the 8 years since her 3rd child, i have declined.
I cant imagine marrying and divorcing her 3 MORE TIMES!
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