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    “Hey guys we’re polling really poorly with women after we stripped them of their rights in several states. How can we smear this guy to gain back ground?”

    “Let’s highlight how he made schools provide menstrual products to children that need them. That’s a bad thing. Women won’t like that.”

    “Brilliant! It’s curtains for this guy’s career.”

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        Yeah, but only because they had to really stretch to manufacture outrage.

        “The products must be available to all menstruating students in restrooms regularly used by students in grades 4 to 12 according to a plan developed by the school district”

        That doesn’t scream “pro-trans”. It certainly allows for it, but the wording is so neutral that you really have to be thinking to explicitly hate on trans to think this is explicitly out to support trans people.

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        The Terfs seem to mostly concerned about biological men in the woman’s room, I don’t think they will even care that tampons are in the men’s room as long as they are in the women’s room as well.

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          Eh, that’s fair. They tend to have some small upset about trans men insofar as trans men make trans women more socially acceptable but you’re right - the primary target of TERF anger is trans women being in women’s spaces because they believe trans women are men, all men are predators, that the purpose of women’s spaces is to keep women safe from predatory men, and that trans women being a thing essentially allows predatory men to put on a costume to gain access to victims in vulnerable positions.

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      Right?

      One time I had some friends over, one of the gals suddenly got very anxious, and privately asked if I had tampons in the house. Luckily an ex had left a box, and seeing the relief was incredible. If helping others in that way gets him the nickname Tampon Tim, I’m celebrating that shit.

      The ones who think it’s a pejorative are the ones that refuse to buy feminine products for their partners because they’re so “manly”.

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    Fyi, the reason it’s noteworthy is he put them in boys toilets and boys don’t menstruate. Which is weird

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      Transmasc students who use boys toilets still menstruate unless on some serious hormone therapy.

      Really this country should gave gone to unisex toilets generations ago

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        That is a fraction of a fraction of a percent of people. Making all toilets wheelchair accessible would probably help more.

        Problem is, women hate it when men use their toilets

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          Have you gone to a public event. Women’s toilets have long lines and men’s have short to no lines. Makes me think men wouldn’t like women sharing their toilets either.

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          Wow your post history is weird.

          Cis this cis that, election fraud, echo chamber, echo chamber, echo chamber! ( and it goes on )

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          Making all toilets wheelchair accessible would probably help more.

          I’m pretty sure that’s already the case. So now that that problem is solved we can move on to figuring out the difficult challenge of making bathrooms unisex. Do we have the time and budget to remove the sign from the door and go about our day?

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          Bro have you ever been in a ladies room? Consistently more nasty then the men’s, nobody’s trying to be in there. You just need a Boogeyman

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            Even if that’s the case, women are super sexist about men in this way. They just hate the idea if sharing toilets with men

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              No, they don’t. You’re just spouting that with no data or evidence. Most women I’ve heard speak about this care more about trans people’s safety and comfort than what kind of genitalia is one stall over.

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                  My friends, family, and co-workers do echo lots of common sense, compassionate viewpoints that I agree with. They also tell me when I’m acting like an idiot, or spouting shit that I have no idea about. I sincerely hope that you have some people like that in your life, too.

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        Really this country should gave gone to unisex toilets generations ago

        The reality of this is that it would end up like divisions in sports and other competitive activities and we’d have a women’s restroom and a unisex restroom. Because some women want to avoid the opposite sex and society will broadly respect that because they are women.

        If schools did switch to all unisex toilets, then we’d just be a complaint and a lawsuit away from official Title IX policy being that girls toilets are mandatory regardless of whether or not there are unisex toilets but boys toilets are not if unisex toilets are available and to do otherwise is sex discrimination because of some arbitrary excuse containing the word “historic” to explain why discrimination is not discrimination so long as it benefits girls.

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          Instead of stalls put proper walls and doors on the toilets like you have at home. Boom. Unisex toilets with no issues.

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            In fact, one of my favorite theaters around here is all unisex bathrooms. You shut a door and you have a dedicated toilet and sink. It’s fantastic.

            Work has a selection of “unisex” bathrooms and I use them all the time, much preferred over the mens room.

            So I’m personally benefitting from this brand of “wokeness”, even if I’m not trans.

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              In fact, one of my favorite theaters around here is all unisex bathrooms. You shut a door and you have a dedicated toilet and sink. It’s fantastic.

              That dramatically reduces capacity though. Which is fine if you don’t need that capacity, and/or aren’t trying to retrofit existing facilities without spending a fortune.

              There’s a pizza place nearish me that has two single occupancy unisex restrooms, for example. But before they moved to unisex they had two single occupancy gendered restrooms, so they were just changing signage rather than having to do any kind of construction to make it happen. As opposed to say a local theater that has 6 toilets, 4 urinals and 4 sinks in one restroom and not remotely enough space to have 6 separate rooms with a toilet and sink each in the same space - but they expected to need higher throughput in a smaller footprint (less so now, but they were pretty busy pre-COVID).

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            This is seriously the way. Once you’ve been to a country that does this (Sweden in my case) and experienced it yourself, the “normal” way (USA in my case) only looks more stupid than it did before.

            But I’m sure it would cost more than zero additional dollars to do, so it would get rejected while still on the drawing board. Some human comfort, dignity, and privacy is NOT going to boost our earnings this quarter.

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            Other than capacity, space, and expense retrofitting issues. Single occupancy toilets take up more room which means being able to handle less people in the same space and space is not an unlimited resource in most building designs. Especially if you are talking about doing it to an existing building.

            My comment about Title IX (a law that says that any educational program receiving federal funding may not discriminate with respect to sex) is specifically in reference to them taking exactly that stance with sports - if a girl wants to play a sport that has a boys team but not a girls then a school is required to let her try out for the boys team (and cannot consider her sex and gender as far as whether she makes the team) under Title IX policy, but if a boy wants to play a sport that has a girls team but not a boys team, he’s SOL under current Title IX policy. To do otherwise is sex discrimination. Equity.

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      I’m not deleting your comment just so you see how many people disagree with you and keep reading the replies. It’s 2024, not the nineteenth century, and transphobia and misoginia only makes you and everyone else worse off.

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        Am I supposed to take this as a kindness or some kind of threat? I couldn’t give a rats fart what any of the loonies on this site think anything I say

        I came here thinking it may me a more sane alter to Reddit, holy shit I was wrong.

        This is like 2016 tumbler, but you all think then world is like this

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      Back at my school, we use to have fight club in the bathroom. If we had tampons it would have saved a bunch of TP to stop bloody noses. We weren’t so forward thinking back in the 90s sadly.

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      Who actually gives a shit? Not the least because transboys do exist, but also because having people reduce the stigma around feminine hygiene products is a net benefit to everyone.

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      This guy also doesn’t support free lunches for kids in school. Says the majority don’t need them, so we shouldn’t provide them at all.

      I gotta say, you sure have some terrible takes, my friend.

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        Been researching me. Dishonestly representing my opinions. Poor.

        I am totally in favour of free school lunches for those in need.

        Do you support buying rich peoples kids lunch with tax money?

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          Surprisingly, children are children, regardless of being rich and poor, and they all get hungry.

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          It works like uniforms. If everyone gets the same lunch, kids can’t manufacture conflict out of it. Stealing lunch money has always been a thing.

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          Do you support buying rich peoples kids lunch with tax money?

          Why not? Their parents are payin’ for it, and it saves a whole mess of useless bureaucrats between hungry kids and food.

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          Yes, I support providing free school lunches to both rich and poor students. It removes the stigma of receiving free or reduced cost lunches.

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                This is where you and I will disagree. I don’t want poor people paying for shit I can get myself without issue. That seems very unfair.

                Save that money for a useful social program that helps poorer people

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                  It costs money to operate registers, take payments, etc as well.

                  Means testing is terrible and why waste time and money rather than cooking the kids some food and having them focus on learning?

                  Not every aspect of society should be about running some type of business. The whole thing is a distraction from what school ought to be about.

                  The same goes for medicine, btw. The means testing and insurance gating there is even worse. Take the cash registers and insurance middlemen out of it and suddenly doctors can worry about the patient care instead of payments.

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          yeah, I do.

          I was a kid on free and reduced lunch. there’s stigma around being poor enough to need it, and I was bullied for it. my home life was sufficiently dysfunctional that it could be the only food I ate that day, and there were still times I’d rather be hungry than bullied.

          so in the interest of removing something kids can be bullied over, sure. tax the rich more, and let a relatively tiny bit of our taxes buy every child at least one meal a day.

          -childless taxpayer

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            Let’s better use taxes to provide the service you clearly needed rather than just lunch. I can afford to buy my kids lunch. I don’t need poorer people’s taxes wasted buying my kids food.

            I was also bullied at school. The removal of only one factor would have made no difference. I was bullied because they wanted to bully me.

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          I’ll assume I misread, it happens. However, kids are kids. Let them eat. How much their parents make doesn’t matter.

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              The kids don’t have the money. Moreover, if anyone’s taxes go towards a service, they should be able to benefit from that service. Not benefit more, just benefit period.

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                Couldn’t disagree more. I provide for my kids. Kids dot have cars, but I drive mine around in my car because they are my kids.

                Free Ubers for all children?

                I do not want to see poor people working to provide free services for rich people.

                I am astounded that is a controversial take.

                And I am speaking as a functionally rich person.

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                  Everything we use is due to taxes. Honestly, as a functionally rich person you should be aware of that. I’m actually of the opinion that anyone in need should be able to utilize services that my tax dollars help fund.

                  This is how society works.

                  The fundamental difference is who is taxed more. A poor family’s children should have access to food. A rich family’s children should have access to food. Your children should have access to food my taxes help pay for, it’s super easy, I’m surprised this is a controversial take.

                  But nah, you right. If your kiddos ever need an ambulance, fuck em. Swipe that credit card, I don’t want to be paying to help as a “functionally poor person”. /s But hey, you said it first.

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            That’s what I’m saying.

            Or do you mean rich peoples kids go to schools that provide lunches because the schools are expensive? If that is the case, that’s wrong. Half my kids friends families live in over £1million houses, but get free lunches at a state school

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        When my kids were in elementary school so many of the students were on free or reduced price lunch they just decided to give every kid a free breakfast and lunch. And even though I could afford the lunches it was great because I didn’t have to get them breakfast before school and I didn’t have to make sure their lunch money account was topped up.

        So even if you don’t need them they’re a really nice thing to have, IMHO.

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      Actually, he didn’t explicitly do so.

      “The products must be available to all menstruating students in restrooms regularly used by students in grades 4 to 12 according to a plan developed by the school distric”

      That sounds like a perfectly reasonable phrasing.

      There is no particularly pro-trans wording or explicitly declaring mens rooms to also have it, the phrasing is supremely neutral.

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      It’s not weird if you have non-binary kids using the boys restroom.

      Here’s the Republican logic:

      Trans kids shouldn’t exist.
      Trans kids shouldn’t be allowed to transition.
      Trans kids shouldn’t be allowed puberty blockers.
      Trans kids shouldn’t have access to basic health products necessary for human dignity.

      Republicans want to do everything they can to marginalize trans kids, make life difficult for trans kids and, ultimately, make it even more likely that trans kids will try to kill themselves than they already do, and that rate is damned high enough as it is.

      Let me put it to you another way maybe you can understand…

      Are you going to tell Buck Angel he’s not allowed to have tampons in the men’s room? 'Cause I have news for you…

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      Oh, so not only do you not want people who need them to have access to menstrual supplies, you also seem to think bigotry against trans people is an acceptable reason why.

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      Imagine boys picking up tampons for their girlfriends or just good friends because they couldn’t.

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          How about people that are born with both sets of sexual organs? Should those people not have access to the products that they need regardless of which bathroom they go in to?

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            They are intersex. That’s a complicated biological situation unique to the individual. I suppose ideally we would change all bathrooms to accommodate 1.7% of the population? If so, I can propose some larger groups who may want representation in public facilities

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              So you agree that it is a problem, just not as big of a problem as others? If you look on the bright side that’s still a win, even if you can think of bigger ones. Are you actively campaigning for the other changes you can think of?

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      They must want high school students who have a uterus to free bleed all over the place.

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      Their entire brand is being brash and unwashed hatred. They just haven’t quite figured out they are the minority and the swing/independent voters who prevously supported them were hoping they’d do more than talk. Now that they are starting a new offensive on their war on women Im waiting hopefully that it’ll just give Dems a safe majority in both houses so they can finally enact legislation.

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      They know. It’s just that this is all they have left to try. They’ve alienated all the decent folk.

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    Texas eliminated taxes on menstrual products. Utah provides them for free in schools.

    Is that really all these unimaginative and pathetic bullies have to throw at Waltz?

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    I’m a Pro Life Republican trying to Save The Children and it’s SOCIALISM to use MY Tax Dollars giving Girls TAMPONS! MY Tax Dollars should ONLY be used for Billionaire’s YACHTS and Millionaire’s ABORTIONS! NOT Poor Girl’s TAMPONS!

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    It’s not ironic. This is politics at this point… You can feel however you want about it (I’ve personally lost all faith in humanity), but ultimately this is the current META

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    Imagine, you’re sitting in a coffee shop enjoying a latte and a guy comes up and says “did you hear about tampon tim?” No one can imagine that. It’s fucking weirdo abnormal behavior.

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      That’s most narratives from most of these goofballs that get their conversation-starters from the likes of Faux, hate radio, Breitbart (does that still exist?) for several decades now, and I’m all too happy that many people of prominence are now acknowledging just how weird that truly is.

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      I’d love that opportunity to grab him by the ear and explain why it’s so beneficial for our society to actually cater to the needs of humans.

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    Accidentally complimenting your opponent when you really wanted to burn and bury him.

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    Well he is going to help stem the red wave so I don’t know how this is actually an insult…

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      From the article:

      And finally, as Walz reminds us—anyone who thinks that period jokes are appropriate or funny is just plain, well, weird.

      Nah. Period jokes can be funny. The problem here isn’t a joke. It’s the anger they’re trying to stir up about the Boogeyman of transgender students.

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        Any joke focused around a kernel of hate will fall flat with normal people. Humor is one of the places that intention is really easy to discern.

        Jokes made in shared struggle or out of affection FEEL different from those crafted to hurt.

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            ? Someone in the middle of transitioning could still require period products.

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          “The products must be available to all menstruating students in restrooms regularly used by students in grades 4 to 12 according to a plan developed by the school district”

          They got all pissy because the law didn’t explicitly say “girls bathrooms” and didn’t use any pronouns.

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          He made tampons available in all bathrooms (boy’s and girl’s) to accommodate trans kids. You are right, these people are deranged - and weird as hell.

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          Because they also may or may not have been available in the boys room. I think that was initially the intention but, well, some teenage boys are going to be dumbasses with menstrual products.

          EDIT:

          As for the latest round of name calling, it seems the aspect of the Minnesota law that has conservatives most agitated is its language: the law states that pads and tampons must be available to “all menstruating students” and “in restrooms regularly used by students in grades 4 to 12.” A failed attempt to amend the bill to only name “female restrooms,” did not keep it from passing as is with bipartisan support.

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      Ok if Harris and Walz win I am going to memeify a picture of Tim heroically stopping the ‘Red Tide’ with a massive sanitary product. I’m sure others are planning the same.

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    Weirdass fucking rightists fantasizing over the creepiest weirdass shit.